I was talking with my friend yesterday and we we're talking about having that spark with some one when you first meet them or get to know them. I've come to the conclusion that there is no thing as a spark...I think its a myth made up by men and women that say they know some one who knows some one that is brothers or sisters with some one. Its like a fairy tale that two people met they had a spark and they got together, got married, had kids and live happily ever after. I mean I think as a guy if you like a girl and she likes you, you can tell there are little things that you will notice that will point you in that direction but having said that not every woman is gonna give you signs that she likes you so what do you do???
There's nothing you can do, the relationship game doesn't change from 13 to 25 to 35 its all the same the only thing that changes is our experiences, age and understanding of the opposite sex. I find it very interesting that its such a game, i wonder why it is I mean from the 1st moment we meet some one new and you exchange numbers its like who's gonna text who first or call who first..... and if you leave it too long can you call them or text them etc etc.
Its crazy I dunno why it seems to be like this, maybe because people don't wanna be honest and just do what the feel 1st of all because they don't wanna get hurt... Which is a fair point but at some point you gotta take the risk or else you will never find some one that is perfect for you.... maybe not perfect but some one that makes you feel happier than you thought was possible.
I think having that "Spark" is a reason to end it with some one or a reason to go after some one that you shouldn't if you like some one you like some one and you will make it happen and if you don't you won't let anything happen.
Having that spark for me is a break up excuse that people are willing to accept!
In other news......
New Ne-yo Track I've got to say its one of his best yet this is my favourite ne-yo tune I've heard so far
And New Yung Berg got to love this man! Its Kinda fresh..
Peace People!
A-team!
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