"Who's Got Game?!"

In this so called "Game" people call it, relationships, dating whatever you want to call it, people always and I stress always get to a point where they just don't wanna play the game any more. I think every one  at the end of the day wants to find some one they can trust, be comfortable with and settle down with. What I've learnt is that in life people try and plan relationships and think ahead too much when in actual fact you should just take every day as it comes. Why try and plan out the future and miss out on the present? It seems stupid. You wouldn't plan out what clothes you're gonna wear in 2 months time ?? Would you???


I'm not saying the dating game is like clothes but it is something that benefits from you taking it each day as it comes. Being single teaches you a lot of lessons as well as being in a relationship, this notion that if you are single you must want to be in a relationship is a joke. Any person that is THAT insecure with themselves they need to be in a relationship to be happy, shouldn't even be in a relationship. You need to be secure with yourself before you can share in a relationship and a lot of people don't understand this. 


I've been in a long term relationship and been single, and there's good and bad points to both. I've to say that there's nothing more refreshing/exciting about meeting some one new and going through that whole, getting to know them phase it is fantastic.


What's even better than that is finding some one that you like, and cutting through all the bullshit, no games, no tactics just honesty nothing can beat it.


Peace 


A x

"Seems We Came Full Circle Again..."

Being single can be fun, it can be lonely depending on the type of person you are and whether you are some one that chooses to be single or some one that can't seem to find the right partner. One thing that happens to me and I'm sure other people out there is that you caught up in the so called "Dating Game". I think the dating game can get messed up, complicated, difficult and strange but its always exciting. There are times when you may be dating more than one person and after a while of this you grow bored, maybe not bored but lets say its not as interesting as it was when you began. Have you ever noticed that no matter how far along you get in the game or how far back you think the past is behind you, there always seems to be that one person that always always in your life, that one person that you seem to always ..... I won't say go back to but seem to always end up dancing the same dance with.

Its crazy but for me I think its very interesting how you can go through quite a lot and still come full circle, and all you can do is think well maybe its destined that you and this person are gonna be doing the dance forever....? Or maybe you should take it as a sign and do something about it, take control of your supposed destiny and see where it takes you.

Only you can control the moves you make and the people that join you along for the ride.