"There's Nothing Worse Than Betrayal..."

I think in life there are times when we all let our guard down and let people in because we feel we can trust them, in if we feel we can trust them then why not. I think the scariest thing about this is that you never know when you will be let down or betrayed and if it does happen is it a painful experience that nobody wants to go through. I think when you are in a relationship with some one for a long long time and you get betrayed it hurts like nothing ever before, to know you have be betrayed by the one person you thought you can count on, the one person that will know more about you than anyone else, the one person you trusted your heart to, all your secrets and your inner most fears is like getting a knife in your back it something that is unbelievably hard to get over.

Although in a relationship if some one cheats it doesn't make them a nice person, people do make mistakes and they can't be judged by the mistakes they make, they should be judged by the way they try and rectify the mistakes. No one is perfect and yes there is no excuse for cheating but the test of how much you love each other and a relationship is throw tough times like these, do you really wanna be together do you want to give up all that time together?? Its a difficult situation to deal with and in that situation it is seen as the simple option to end the relationship but relationships are not easy and if after all the betrayal you still have feelings for this person than why not try and find some way of working it out??

Love is a complicated business and no body has all the answers but I think giving up because of a mistake by one partner is letting it go to easy especially if you still love each other, people say you only get one soul mate. Well I don't believe that, I believe that if you meet some one and fall in love it takes work to keep the relationship together it just doesn't happen, life is not that easy, love is not that easy and relationships are not that easy. If you want something or someone you have to fight for it nothing comes easy in this world nothing that is worth having comes easy no matter what it is!

Never give up on love, the moment you give up on love you give up on yourself.