Recently I've been thinking about people in general and change we go through as people. Uni is a time where it's been said its time for you to find yourself but some people decide to change because of what other people think of them. Everybody changes in there life time but its a personal growth, you don't change the way you are because of the people you know and the people you are friends with, if they don't accept you for you then they are not real friends. The craziest thing is there is people I know that have changed because they think that because of the people they are friends with or the people they aspire to be instead of aspiring to be the best version of themselves they can be. These people know they've changed and know exactly how by the way they act and the things they do, the silliest thing is these people who are your friends realize the change in you and being to dislike it because they know exactly the person you are and the fact that you are not being yourself. Your friends never expect you to be something you're not, if they do then they really aren't friends you wanna have.
It all comes down to whether you can live with yourself living a lie, you know deep down inside yourself who you really are, nobody can tell you who you are, nobody can tell you how to act but you. You control your own life and your own actions and at the end of it all its you that has to answer to your self about your actions and you will get eaten alive by the pressure of trying keep up this fake lifestyle that is not really you.
Be true and honest to yourself...
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